This whole being graduated thing is interesting. Although, I'd seriously like to have a better idea of what I'm going to be doing in my future, I'm going to have to say I'm enjoying the new stage in life, mostly.
I've had plenty of time to spend working on personal stuff, hanging out with friends, and doing mostly what I want to do. But, having spent many of the nights this week hanging out with my friends who are either married, or engaged, I have to say, I don't want to spend the rest of my life in this stage, and actually, it'd be nice if this stage ended sooner rather than later. Side note, it was great to hang out with all my buddies that I don't get to see very often. I've been able to have some great friends over the years.
Just because I can, I have to say, that I got to play with my nephews today, they're pretty much the greatest little boys on the face of the planet. I told Max it was nap time, and the 1 year old walked up the stairs, shut the door behind me after I followed him into his room, and then looked at me and asked to be picked up, after I put him in his crib and tucked him in, the little boy gave me the nod, like yeah, I'm good. SO cute, and so funny. And his older brother is just as cute and funny.
One other big topic on the stage of life things that seems to be a consensus from my friends, it's dang hard to meet people. I try, but I think I'm at my wits end. So far doing what I do doesn't tend to yield many prospects. So, any suggestions would be at least useful.
I agree, they are the greatest boys on the face of the planet!
ReplyDeleteI'll keep my eyes open for some "prospects". :)
The best advice I would have in the area of prospects is two fold. One, I would say really work on figuring out your future plans. When I was in the dating world I had a couple of boyfriends who were unsure of their future. This trait made it difficult for me to see how I might fit into that future and was one of their less attractive qualities. Two, ask girls on dates. I think it is the optimal way to get to know a person and decide whether you would like to ask them on more dates.
ReplyDeleteYou're an awesome guy, Jeremy, so just keep swimming :)
Not quite what I meant, more along the ideas of how to meet people, but being set up does count as a way to meet people...
ReplyDeleteYou could become one of those creepy dudes who hangs out in the Wilk all day. Actually, on second thought, don't do that. Don't do that at all. I guess I'd say just make sure you're hanging out with people who are also interested in dating, that way the double-date, group-date, and just generally meeting-people rates will all go up.
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